The Top 5 products to help you cope when your child is teething!

Congratulations your baby is growing up, and while it might not feel like it now, he/she is taking the next step necessary to enjoy one of life’s finest things: food! By popular demand, it seems like people want to know what products moms use to help their children (and parents) deal with teething. I’ve come up with a few things that some moms swear by, but like anything else to do with your child none or all of these may work for your baby!

Sophie the Giraffe 1)Sophie the Giraffe

This is currently the rave right now by my new mommy friends. But most people who’ve spoken of this chewey, really like her. This pricey chew toy ($20.00 CAD at ToysRus) has been around since 1961 and is made in France (French Alps to be precise).  The giraffe is made from natural rubber and non-toxic paint, so in theory is safe to chew on. She looks bigger in photos but is actually quite petite in real life! This chew toy aims at stimulating baby’s five senses:

  1. Sight: The dark and contrasting pattern on Sophie’s body provides visual stimulation and makes her easily recognizable to baby. (S)he soon becomes a familiar and reassuring object.
  2. Hearing: Her squeaker keeps baby amused, stimulates his hearing and helps him to understand the cause and effect relationship. **Note: for those of you with dogs, this toy sounds like a chew toy, so watch your animals while you play with it at first, hopefully the dog doesn’t charge you!
  3. Taste: Sophie the giraffe is very flexible and has lots of parts for baby to chew (ears, horns, legs). She is perfect for soothing baby’s sore gums when teething and is completely safe. Made of 100% natural rubber and food grade paint.
  4. Touch: Sophie the giraffe is perfect for baby’s small hands. She is very light and her long neck and slender legs are easy for baby to handle. Just like Mummy’s skin, Sophie’s very soft to touch, which baby will find soothing and comforting. *note: my son has just started to grasp things, but doesn’t yet have the coordination to bring them to his mouth so I don’t know if I’d drop the 20$ just yet.
  5. Smell: The singular scent of natural rubber (from the Hevea tree) makes Sophie the giraffe very special and easy for baby to identify amid all his/her toys.

2)Teething Feeder

Teething

This item is definitely on the cheaper side ($5.99 at ToysRus) compared to Sophie. It has an interesting concept. It allows you to put age appropriate food in the mesh and allows your child to suck on the mesh (and whatever is inside the mesh–without choking on it). So once your baby is on solids, putting some frozen fruit in there is a great idea to cool their mouths and give your child some nutrients at the same time. The biggest complaint with this one is that the compartment to open up to get the food into is hard to get into. But at 5.99 it’s worth a shot.

3)Winnie the Pooh – Cuddly Teether Blanket -Tigger

This item serves a few purposes besides teething, also available at ToysRus and is still cheaper then Sophie ($11.99 CAD at ToysRus)Winnie the Pooh. This teether doubles as a toy and a blanket. Here are Tigger’s features:

  1. Textured teether soothes tender gums– the teether is the rubber part on one side of the blanket.
  2. Easy-to-grasp plush character makes fun rattle sounds–maybe not such a great idea at bed time, not to mention the “nothing in the crib” but baby warnings.
  3. Fun crinkle material for tactile stimulation–again not such a great idea at bed time.
  4. Fleece material is soft for comfort and security.
  5. Machine-washable and dryer-safe for easy cleaning.

*Note Tigger comes with this Warning: As recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics, never place an infant to sleep with soft bedding, blankets, or stuffed toys. Inspect teether frequently for tears or cracks. Discontinue use immediately if tears or cracks develop.

4)Soother’s and teething rings and face cloths or your finger

image Soothers are great comfort to babies who enjoy sucking (and what baby doesn’t!) But soother’s are baby specific so any brand that has the nub on the end will work for my next tip (some you can put your finger in, those won’t work for my text tip). If you find your baby is too young to hold on to teethers, try filling the nub with water and freezing the pacifier works wonders. Squeeze the nub while submerged in water and let go so it sucks water in. This allows the baby to suck on something cool and not drop it.

Teething Teething rings I find for the most part to big and clunky to stick in their mouths, let alone for them to hold on to. I’m sure as they get older this problem goes away, but if your baby is smaller, the sheer size of some of these rings is ridiculous. One teether for smaller babies that was given to us as a gift is becoming more popular with our son. At first he didn’t quite know what to make of the cold thing in his mouth but this night has been the night from hell for teething and this Nûby’s Ice-Gel teething ring helped our poor little guy a little bit. This particular teething ring simply states: No more lips that stick to a freezing teething ring! –personally I have yet to have his lips stick to a teether, but that’s certainly not something I want to try out! It’s made with something called “Pûr Ice” (non toxic) this Ice Gel stays cold much longer than water and soothes your baby’s painful gums. This coolbite can be kept in the fridge for any length of time thanks to its very solid covering. While the gums enjoy the coolness, the little baby hands are not bothered by the cold. The keys are easily to grab and look like a rattle.

Facecloth’s This is pretty standard, some babies like them frozen, some like them cool and wet so they can suck on them. Again my little fusspot angel of a baby does not like to suck on facecloth’s just yet, who knows if he ever will. You can get these facecloths’s from any store you please, and they don’t have to be the baby ones. Just remember to wash them (along with all products you first buy) first, and don’t use dryer sheets or fabric softener on these little items as they’re going in your child’s mouth!

Your finger when all else fails, try your good old finger, usually an index or pinkie finger works best, and remember to keep those hands clean and nails trimmed. Sometimes babies just want to chew on us for the sake of it. For the mom’s who are still breastfeeding, teething is an interesting time, and babies will try to bite you. Remember not to pull away (Dr. Sears) reminds us, that by pulling away (not to mention hurting like there’s no tomorrow), and yelping may actually cause your baby to be weary of your breast. Instead he suggests pushing baby into the breast so that baby’s face is covered. Please be very careful when doing this, it is meant to startle the baby to release the nipple, and please take this seriously as it cuts off your baby’s air supply when (s)he is pushed into your breast.

5)Pain relievers such as infant Tylenol,infant Advil, infant Motrin

Tylenol

Acetaminophen-Most doctors that I have spoken to about pain relief has always suggested acetaminophen (AKA Tylenol) so when I went out pre baby to purchase some things for after baby arrived I chose Infant Tylenol. I’m sure the no name brands work just as well but as a first time “paranoid” mom, I wanted a brand name. This can be administered every 4 hours to your infant (following dosage guidelines) and helps ease, fevers, teething pain, immunization pain etc. I have only used it once because it’s hard for our little children’s liver’s to process the pain relievers. I would use this method as a last resort, but when you know your child is screaming in pain and no amount of chewy things or food will comfort your baby, pain relievers as long as you use as directed can help your little one fall asleep for a few hours to give them (and you) a break from the crying.

Tylenol’s Dosing Chart:

Weight(lbs)

Age

Dose (mL)

Under 12 0-3 months Ask your doctor
12-17 4-11 months 1 mL
18-23 12-23 months 1.5 mL
24-35 2-3 years 2 mL

*note- It states this “Find right dose on chart below. (If possible, use weight to dose; otherwise, use age.)”

Advil

Ibuprofen- I was surprised to learn that my public health nurse swore by using Infant Advil. She said it worked better and longer then infant Tylenol for her child. Infant Advil and Infant Motrin lasts up to 8 hours whereas the Infant Tylenol lasts only 4 hours. The only difference I’ve found on their websites were the age restriction. Dosing on both Motrin’s (my prenatal instructor–also a public health nurse uses infant Motrin) and Advil’s websites stated that children younger than 4 months should consult a physician before using these products for pain relief.

Advil’s Dosing Chart:                                                      Motrin’s Dosing Chart:

Weight (lbs) Age (mos) Dose (mL)
—————————— Under 4 months Ask your doctor
12-17 lbs 6-11 mos 1.25 mL
18-23 lbs 12-23 mos 1.875mL
Weight (lbs) Age (mos) Dose (mL)
———————- Under 4 months Ask your doctor
12-17 lbs 6-11 mos 1.25 mL
18-23 lbs 12-23 mos 1.875 mL

*note- it states this “If possible, use weight to dose; otherwise use age”

So basically all of them state what to give your child after 12 lbs, Advil and Motrin just state that at 4 months or under to talk to a Doctor. I also found this warning on the Advil page in regards to ibuprofen:

Warnings

Allergy alert: Ibuprofen may cause a severe allergic reaction, especially in people allergic to aspirin.
Symptoms may include:
hives facial swelling asthma (wheezing)
shock skin reddening rash blisters
If an allergic reaction occurs, stop use and seek medical help right away.
Interesting Dosage calculator!

I was browsing the Canadian website and came across a calculator to see which product may suit your child’s needs best, check it out!

Advil’s:

http://www.advil.ca/content/learning/tools/dosagecalc/default.asp

Tylenol’s

http://www.tylenol.ca/english/dosage/calculator.asp

The bottom line, Ibuprofen should not be used by people with severe asprin allergies, Tylenol boasts on its page that it’s(acetaminophen) safe for people to take who have asprin allergies. Also both Ibuprofen pain relievers are good for 6-8 hours and Tylenol needs to be re-administered every 4. Also Motrin, Tylenol and Advil (in Canada only) all come in Dye free formula’s. As for price, they are relatively around the same price range, where you’ll find a break in price in on the generic brands.
But moms will do what is best for their children. As long as you talk to your family doctor about pain medication, and you feel comfortable with the discussion then by all means pain relievers are an option. Remember that even if you speak to one health care provider and you don’t feel comfortable with their response, advocate for yourself and your family and go and get another opinion.

Why on earth am I still awake when I should be sleeping?

So here I am, it’s 8 am and the house is quiet. The TV is off but my computer, like always, is on.

For those of you who wake up at 4 or 5 a.m., the logical thing we like to do is go back to sleep. However this morning is not a lucky morning for my sleep. My son woke up at 4 so I said, “no way, too early” and was able to give him a soother to tide him over until 5ish. By 5:30 he was stirring in his crib cooing to himself, so I thought, well I’d might as well get up now before the coo becomes the cry.

One of the most rewarding things in my life right now is when I go in to see my son first thing in the morning, he smiles at me. I can be dead to the earth tired but his smile melts my heart. Let’s not mistake this melting of the heart for sleep replacement though.

So he’s smiling away, and I give him a hug and a kiss and I smile back BUT I do not talk to him because it’s still 5:30 AM and that’s still too early for me to let him think it’s time to play. He get’s his bum pampered (literally and figuratively) and his morning feed. Afterwhich I reswaddle him and put him back to sleep.  Well it’s a bright sunny morning in Manitoba and do you think I could go back to sleep? No.

Why is it the law that my son has now been asleep for 2 and a half more hours and I’m awake? Maybe it’s the curse of the mom, my brain has been turned on. What are we going to do today? Is it going to be nice out? Did i remember to pay the cable bill? What are we going to do for Canada day? I should really fold this laundry sitting at my feet. Which day did I vacuum last? Did i remember to reply to all of my messages on Facebook? Maybe if I pretend I’m tired I’ll magically fall back asleep. Do you think that actually worked? No. I laid there until 7:45 “trying” to sleep. At one point I went to the car to get my Gaviscon tablets for my upset stomach (probably caused by the cranberry juice I had at 6 a.m.) only to have my husband stir and say, “what on earth are you doing this early in the garage, leaving me?” Ahhhh so nice to be appreciated.

About the Real Tech Mom

The Real Tech Mom with Dominic Real Tech Mom is a new mom of a beautiful baby boy born in March. She also looks after her other two kids (Mia and Keely—her two cats) and her wonderful husband of two years.  Currently on Maternity leave from the HR industry, it has taken some time getting used to not being at work, but being a mom is a different type of job that’s for sure!

Real moms like me know that just because everyone says you should do it, or not do it does not make it set in stone.  The tech part comes into play because my husband is in the technology industry (you could argue that most people’s jobs are nowadays). But this also means that dinner is never the same time every night and our lives are ruled by overtime, extra overtime, travel and the crack blackberry.

Not only a mom, but still a woman and human being that believe it or not enjoys more then just being a mom! Some of my passions are a little geeky but still they’re me none the less. I love video games, namely the Wii games, the Sims, Rockband (xbox360), karaoke, and reading.

My husband and I are known to throw big Karaoke parties, Rockband now added to the entertainment list, as well as dinner parties.  My new motto is just because we’re parents does not mean we’re dead. Our schedules are a little different now that we have our son, but we like to still have fun!

Do you have a product you’d like me to test out? Or a Question you’d like me to answer? Please email me at erincarrasco@gmail.com and i’ll do my best to get back to you right away!

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The Life of a Mom in the Land of Teething

Maybe my title should have been the lack of life of a Mom in the land of teething.  While experienced moms know all to well the signs of a teething baby, for a first time mom it can be quite disheartening.

Let me preface by saying, I love my son, but this child just did not sleep until he was 3 months old. And just as he finally got some type of a sleep pattern down, BAM! Hello Teething!  Many experienced mothers have been telling me that just when you think you’ve got things figured out, they change on you. Wow has that ever rang true.   I couldn’t help but be jealous of the women who had “wonder” babies that were sleeping through the night on Breast Milk alone and let me tell you I considered switching to formula more then I can count—but that’s another story!

6 Signs that your son/daughter(s) is teething:

  1. Drool, drool and more drool, did I mention drool?
  2. Irritability: my word wouldn’t have been as nice as that but babies are just not happy when they’re teething—no surprise here, they’re often in pain, how happy are we when we’re in pain! I named my son Mr. Fussypants from the beginning!
  3. Coughing: because of the extra saliva production (see point one) they often “choke” on their own Saliva. *note* this is not to be confused with a cold, always check with your doctor if you are unsure.
  4. Biting or gnawing. With my son, it discovered his hand, not his thumb. He would try to put the whole thing in his mouth and bite. We would hear this sucking sound and look over to see him covered in drool with almost his whole fist in his mouth. Some babies use their fingers to locate the pain and then chew on the respective finger.
  5. Cheek rubbing and ear pulling: When your baby has pain in their gums may also travel to the ears and cheeks particularly when the back molars begin coming in.  This is why you may see your baby rubbing their cheeks or pulling at their ears. *note* this can also be a sign of an ear infection.
  6. Sleep patterns go out the window: Last but certainly not least, the sleep or lack their of. Let’s see, some days you can have a “sleepy” baby who’s probably sleeping to avoid the pain, or is just so tired from being up the previous night/day because of all the pain. Either way, count on one thing, what you knew as his or her pattern goes out the window. It’s not uncommon for babies to start waking again every hour to two hours when they’re in pain.

There are other signs that your child is teething that I didn’t include on my list but it doesn’t mean they do not exist, and because babies are one of a kind there a probably more than I have listed here. Some others are: diarrhea, cold like symptoms (runny nose), chin rash–because of all the drool, and a low grade fever. Some doctors are hesitant to link fever’s with teething pain, but seeing flushed cheeks are not uncommon during teething.

It’s no wonder that some mom’s feel like it’s the first 6 weeks again, with unpredictable sleeping and eating patterns (some babies also eat for comfort—take my little chunkers of 18lbs at 4 months!) it’s hard to go back to the waking and feeding schedule of a newborn when you’ve just gotten accustomed to the sleeping again.

A common question is, “when will this happen to my baby?” Generally, the first tooth shows itself between 4 and 6 months BUT that does not mean that your baby isn’t feeling the pain of teeth pushing under the gums. Teeth can also protrude and look like they’re retracting (most often this is just the swelling of the gums around the tooth that looks like they either go back in and resurface). For my son it started around 2 months with the drool, we are now in the full swing of things and let me tell you, it bites!

Here is a schedule of when which teeth are supposed to come in:

Age

Teeth

Position

6-7 months

Incisors

Two central bottom and Two central top teeth

7-9 months

Two more Incisors

Top and Bottom: making four top and four bottom teeth

10-14 months

First molars

Double teeth for chewing

15 to 18 months

Canines

The pointed teeth or “fangs”

2-3 years

Second Molars

The second set of double teeth at the back

There are a total of 20 primary teeth that will fall out (i.e. baby teeth), that make way for the 32 adult teeth we all have (hopefully). Keep in mind that these are just an “estimate” of when things should come in, your baby is an individual and just like walking or talking, has his/her own schedule.

So what can I do?

There are always new and exciting things for moms to buy. But some mom’s swear by wetting or freezing a baby facecloth and letting them suck on it. Years ago the top “must have product” used to be numbing gels used to numb the gums but doctors are finding that most of it get’s on the tongue and has the possibility to numb the child’s gag reflex. Not to mention all the chemicals in it, I mean if you want to try putting that in your mouth, you’ll notice how numb your tongue gets! If your little one is still not coordinated enough to hold on to cloths yet, consider sucking some water into a soother and freezing that.  Other then the above, teething rings can work well, but your baby may prefer your fingers so make sure your hands are clean!

Keep in mind, our babies don’t mean to be difficult. They’re up more because they’re uncomfortable and in pain, try to remember that at 2, 4,6 in the morning!  If it ever does become too much, have a friend come over for an hour or two so you can get some sleep. I never realized how tired I was until my husband let me sleep, and I slept all afternoon! But I feel your pain ladies, (or stay at home daddies) not being able to shower, get dressed, run to the bathroom without having your child strapped to you, is so hard. My best advice is to have an outlet to be able to de-stress in. Develop a hobby—not that you’ll be able to devote much time to while they’re teething, but find something that allows you to de-stress in the down time–even if it is for 20 minutes! I used to find that I had two choices when my son was young and not sleeping, I either chose to eat or to sleep while he napped, and often sleeping won!

So while you may feel at your wits end, keep in mind this is a phase that shall pass too, and it may be frustrating to go from one problem (the no sleeping thing) to the next (the teething), remind yourself it shall pass! If you ever get frustrated with your child imagine what Jon and Kate must have gone through with 6 infants at once. Now I look at mom’s with two or more of the same age, and it makes me realize, God made me only have one at a time for a reason.

If you are really struggling, and before you try anything new it’s always a good idea to talk to your pediatrician or family doctor.